Sunday, May 4, 2014

Choosing Our Paths

We are fortunate to live in America, where we have some choice as to how our lives will develop. God gave us free will and free countries like America allow us lots of room to exercise our free will. While we have no specific guarantees from God or our country, we can make many choices about paths we will follow and how we will relate to the rest of humanity. One size doesn’t fit all and there are many takes on life among us.

My Brother Chuck’s life experience is one of those lives a bit different than most. He is seven years younger than me, so I had a front row seat as to how he developed from childhood. From the time he started walking, my brother was interested in nature. Back in those days, we had a milk man that delivered our milk to an insulated box on our front porch. To the milk man’s surprise, he would sometimes find frogs and lizards in the milk box when he opened it to place our milk bottles. These creatures were gifts from my brother Chuck. He put them there for safe keeping.
As Chuck continued to grow, he selected other ways to connect with nature. He had a wonderful butterfly collection as well as a leaf collection. He had an interest in sports and hiking and after high school he went to our local junior college. He happened to have a professor that had a retreat cabin in Wisconsin, some 900 miles north of the college. He gave Chuck the keys to the place and told him to go visit and check out the condition of the cabin for him.
Chuck asked a neighbor friend and classmate to go on the excursion with him. After a cold and snowy winter, the guys decided to check out other parts of the U.S. That led them to Colorado and what would be home for both of them the rest of their lives. They each married and raised families there. Brother Chuck ended up in the Log Home construction business to support him and his family, but had lots of time for recreation. His list of activities included: kayaking, mountain climbing, vertical rock and ice climbing, bicycling, and fishing to name a few. He continues all of these today at age 63 and has expanded his explorations to many parts of America, Canada, Costa Rica & Mexico.
While being a good citizen during his life, Chuck has lived a bit differently than most of us. Other than his many recreational likes, he has approached life in a way apart from the worldly interferences that distract many of us. He has avoided the pressures of society and work as much as possible. He rarely listens to or watches the news. He refers to them as the talking heads and sees the media and politics as a distraction to his life enjoying nature.  
I stumbled upon an excerpt from Henry David Thoreau’s book, Walden -or- Life in the Woods, the other day and it made me think of my brother Chuck. This book was required reading for many of us in our schooling years. Thoreau lived for two years in a self-built cabin in the forest near Walden Pond, in Concord, Massachusetts. His reason for doing this is well explained by him in the quote below. While most of us have not been led to choose the lifestyle of Chuck or the direction suggested by Thoreau, they both reflect our need for more balance and enjoyment of life.
Thoreau writes in his Walden book: “I went to the woods because I wished to live deliberately, to front only the essential facts of life, and see if I could not learn what it had to teach, and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived. I did not wish to live what was not life, living is so dear; nor did I wish to practice resignation, unless it was quite necessary. I wanted to live deep and suck out all the marrow of life, to live so sturdily and Spartan- like as to put to rout all that was not life, to cut a broad swath and shave close, to drive life into a corner, and reduce it to its lowest terms, and, if it proved to be mean, why then to get the whole and genuine meanness of it, and publish its meanness to the world; or if it were sublime, to know it by experience, and be able to give a true account of it in my next excursion. For most men, it appears to me, are in a strange uncertainty about it, whether it is of the devil or of God, and have somewhat hastily concluded that it is the chief end of man here to "glorify God and enjoy him forever."
Let’s enjoy God’s created gift of the Earth more and more. After all, He put us in charge! Genesis 1:28.

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