I was helping an elderly friend with his
broken down car. The folks fixing his car were working on it for two weeks. My
friend is hearing impaired, so I took him over to the car repair place several
times to communicate with the fixers as to what was being fixed and when it
would be ready. Finally they said the car was ready and my friend asked me to
drive him to pick it up.
When we got there, I got into a discussion
with the manager about the work done and their warranties. Thinking I was helping my friend, I allowed
myself to turn things into an argument. To make a long story short, I blew my
top and talked very loud and condemning to the manager.
Before leaving, I did however; shake the
manager's hand and apologized for getting so upset. I used my anger to handle
the problem instead of God's peace and love. I repented and returned to the
Lord.
In Matthew 23:1-5 we are reminded: Then Jesus spoke to the multitudes and to His disciples, saying: “The
scribes and the Pharisees sit in Moses’ seat. Therefore
whatever they tell you to observe, that observe and do,
but do not do according to their works; for they say, and do not do. For they bind heavy burdens, hard to bear,
and lay them on men’s
shoulders; but they themselves
will not move them with one of their fingers. But all their works they do to be seen by men.”
Even when we seek to include the Lord in all
things, we can be diverted by what the natural world would suggest we do. That includes straightening people out when
we think they are working against us or someone we love. We forget the old
idiom, “You can catch more flies
with honey than with vinegar.” It
is easier to persuade people using polite arguments than it is being confrontational.
In Romans 2:21-22 St. Paul tells us, “You,
therefore, who teach another, do you not teach yourself? You who preach that a
man should not steal, do you steal? 22 You who say, “Do not commit
adultery,” do you commit adultery? You who abhor idols, do you rob temples?” We must be careful in our ministry to others,
and not suggest something in life for others to practice if we don’t practice
it ourselves.
The only perfect man that has ever lived,
Jesus, has become the Christ, and has gone to His Father. He taught us so much while He dwelt among us,
but he knows that we are not capable of perfection. We will sin no matter how hard we try to
avoid sin. His command to us is to repent and return to the Lord.
When we seek the Lord our God in all things
we will be the first to know when we sin.
We will be our biggest critic while God is so forgiving of us. In my
angry moment I described above, I knew immediately I had stepped over God’s
line in my behavior. I became depressed
and concerned. When I turned from worry and depression to repentance, I felt
God’s forgiveness and I was reconciled to Him.
I knew that in order to continue to serve
the Lord, I had to take His forgiveness, forgive myself and the fellow I had
become angry with. It is so easy for us to jump to conclusions quickly in our
world. One of the ways this can occur is to become too wrapped up with all the
local, national and world news that we contact each day. So many opinions about
so many things make it difficult for us to truly understand what is going on
around us. It can overflow and put us in a critical bent about all of life.
In Matthew 6:33 we are reminded, “But
seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall
be added to you.” Pray for me a
sinner.